The Last Person to Post Wins - Raijū

[Farfalla]

Nah, the nose is too small for an Argie baby '-'

 

[Xadyu]

So a couple we know lost their baby today.

She was five weeks old, had a stroke. Apparently there was something wrong with her, but didn't show on any tests or ultra-sounds or whatever.
We're not really friends with them, we know them through affiliation. But we immediately heard about it since we're close with the mutual friends.

They visited for emotional support, it was truly a horrendous sight, they have 4 other kids, all below the age of 7, all of them bawling their eyes out obviously, with the youngest of 2 (or 3) asking why "she doesn't work anymore", why "she's broken". Just hearing about it made me cry.

This might've been a stroke, but I was afraid for most of Conan's first year of life, for SIDS, which is not as rare as you'd think. I almost didn't sleep the first six months, and afterwards I slept better, but still not enough. I was afraid to wake up and find him lifeless. I got scared shitless plenty of times when I walked into his room and saw him lying there, but couldn't tell if he was breathing or not. I wasn't even thinking about it for our second, but now I heard this story that fear is already crawling back.

I can't imagine losing Conan or our second, never. Once you start with a pet, you accept it's going to die before you, you know it's limited. But once you get a child, you think it's going to be for the rest of your life, that you're the one to go and they are the ones to cry, not the other way around. Hearing stories of children dying (no matter the reason) is terrifying and makes me hug or kiss Conan once I get the chance.

But hearing these stories, of only weeks/months old babies dying out of nowhere, that's terrifying and I wouldn't wish this on anyone. I'm rambling on, I guess, but I heard this story earlier and wanted to vent a bit because it made me sick, and sad. Five weeks old and a fucking stroke, that's just fucking shit. Doctors already looked at her, and they came to the conclusion that if they saw it beforehand, it probably wouldn't have changed anything and it was just a matter of time.

Which, just might be, a lot worse than a sudden death.

 

[Elusia]

Two days until London. Three days until Hamilton.

@Elusia

Lucky
Have fun with the play though. Make sure you enjoy every last bit of it.

Though I don't think I asked you this, but what's your favorite song? And your least fav?

--- Double Post Merged, Sep 24, 2018, Original Post Date: Sep 24, 2018 ---

So a couple we know lost their baby today.

She was five weeks old, had a stroke. Apparently there was something wrong with her, but didn't show on any tests or ultra-sounds or whatever.
We're not really friends with them, we know them through affiliation. But we immediately heard about it since we're close with the mutual friends.

They visited for emotional support, it was truly a horrendous sight, they have 4 other kids, all below the age of 7, all of them bawling their eyes out obviously, with the youngest of 2 (or 3) asking why "she doesn't work anymore", why "she's broken". Just hearing about it made me cry.

This might've been a stroke, but I was afraid for most of Conan's first year of life, for SIDS, which is not as rare as you'd think. I almost didn't sleep the first six months, and afterwards I slept better, but still not enough. I was afraid to wake up and find him lifeless. I got scared shitless plenty of times when I walked into his room and saw him lying there, but couldn't tell if he was breathing or not. I wasn't even thinking about it for our second, but now I heard this story that fear is already crawling back.

I can't imagine losing Conan or our second, never. Once you start with a pet, you accept it's going to die before you, you know it's limited. But once you get a child, you think it's going to be for the rest of your life, that you're the one to go and they are the ones to cry, not the other way around. Hearing stories of children dying (no matter the reason) is terrifying and makes me hug or kiss Conan once I get the chance.

But hearing these stories, of only weeks/months old babies dying out of nowhere, that's terrifying and I wouldn't wish this on anyone. I'm rambling on, I guess, but I heard this story earlier and wanted to vent a bit because it made me sick, and sad. Five weeks old and a fucking stroke, that's just fucking shit. Doctors already looked at her, and they came to the conclusion that if they saw it beforehand, it probably wouldn't have changed anything and it was just a matter of time.

Which, just might be, a lot worse than a sudden death.

My condolences to that couple. That's really sad.......

 

[gnut]

So a couple we know lost their baby today.

She was five weeks old, had a stroke. Apparently there was something wrong with her, but didn't show on any tests or ultra-sounds or whatever.
We're not really friends with them, we know them through affiliation. But we immediately heard about it since we're close with the mutual friends.

They visited for emotional support, it was truly a horrendous sight, they have 4 other kids, all below the age of 7, all of them bawling their eyes out obviously, with the youngest of 2 (or 3) asking why "she doesn't work anymore", why "she's broken". Just hearing about it made me cry.

This might've been a stroke, but I was afraid for most of Conan's first year of life, for SIDS, which is not as rare as you'd think. I almost didn't sleep the first six months, and afterwards I slept better, but still not enough. I was afraid to wake up and find him lifeless. I got scared shitless plenty of times when I walked into his room and saw him lying there, but couldn't tell if he was breathing or not. I wasn't even thinking about it for our second, but now I heard this story that fear is already crawling back.

I can't imagine losing Conan or our second, never. Once you start with a pet, you accept it's going to die before you, you know it's limited. But once you get a child, you think it's going to be for the rest of your life, that you're the one to go and they are the ones to cry, not the other way around. Hearing stories of children dying (no matter the reason) is terrifying and makes me hug or kiss Conan once I get the chance.

But hearing these stories, of only weeks/months old babies dying out of nowhere, that's terrifying and I wouldn't wish this on anyone. I'm rambling on, I guess, but I heard this story earlier and wanted to vent a bit because it made me sick, and sad. Five weeks old and a fucking stroke, that's just fucking shit. Doctors already looked at her, and they came to the conclusion that if they saw it beforehand, it probably wouldn't have changed anything and it was just a matter of time.

Which, just might be, a lot worse than a sudden death.

Its sad brotha but its an unfortunate truth that infants are very vulnerable to alot of things...in this case maybe irregular heartbeat...idk
But you cant raise children having fears like this that weigh down your heart.
Obviously no matter how cautious you are...as in the case of these parents.
There are things that just cant be helped...i know its very sad but dont let it get to you

 

[Shobu_Yoruichi]

I feel that too Xad.
When i see wrongdoings on animals, i tend to hug and kiss my dog. So it simply is out of our control just as many other things.

Btw, do you have problems at identifying who is who between Abbie Cornish and Brie Larson??
Both are like twins to me... xD

 

[Xadyu]

Btw, do you have problems at identifying who is who between Abbie Cornish and Brie Larson??
Both are like twins to me... xD

That's racist.

And no, they look completely different from each other.

 

[Shobu_Yoruichi]

That's racist.

And no, they look completely different from each other.

D:


Awesome Xad xd
I found the same issue with Haley Bennett and Jlaw... and glad i did! Haley looks soo yummy.

 

[Raven]

@Raven should I watch the Break Blade movies or TV series?

i prefer movies

 

[Organizized]

I feel that too Xad.
Btw, do you have problems at identifying who is who between Abbie Cornish and Brie Larson??
Both are like twins to me... xD

D:

I found the same issue with Haley Bennett and Jlaw...

 

[Lambu]

Lemme share him with you guys *-*

Spoiler

We wanted a good 3D pic but the lil stinker won't stop moving and in the end was covering his head with his lil hands

I bet you already want to hug him so much!

Hey @GrySun we are making that 3 chocolate cake right now, I'll remember to send you the differences for when you try it again o/

 

[Organizized]

Lucky
Have fun with the play though. Make sure you enjoy every last bit of it.

Though I don't think I asked you this, but what's your favorite song? And your least fav?

Tough to choose.. the Cabinet Battles are great the way they’re played out like 8-Mile style rap battles. Other ones with great rapping like Yorktown, Right Hand Man, Guns and Ships and My Shot are probably my favorites, but I also love the more musical-y ones like Satisfied and King George’s little pop-up songs (probably the ones I sing the most). Yeah, idk, there’s not really any songs I dislike even a little from this show...

 

[Farfalla]

@Lambu, bday today? *-*

 

[Lambu]

@Lambu, bday today? *-*

Yeah! \/

I'll celebrate it with friends on the weekend, but today with the family as it should be

 

[gnut]

Yeah! \/

I'll celebrate it with friends on the weekend, but today with the family as it should be

Happy bday lil buddy!!!

 

[Shobu_Yoruichi]

You too Orgz???
You guys are huge detailists.

 

[Elusia]

@Lambu, my otou-san and @MarmaladeSky

Happy Birthday!

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[Farfalla]

Feliz cumple \o/ bienvenido a lo equipo de los viejos ^_^ (blame my Spanish on Hardy)

 

[gnut]

Feliz cumple \o/ bienvenido a lo equipo de los viejos ^_^ (blame my Spanish on Hardy)

Yes @Lambu
Feline pimple and telemundo to you...my espanol

 

[Farfalla]

C'mon, you know Piña Colada as well ^_^

 

[Rein Avara]